When false confidence in an established rhythm leads to disaster
I never thought I'd learn a caregiving lesson from Homer Simpson
In the seventh season of the longest-running U.S. animated series, “The Simpsons,” Homer’s bosses at the town nuclear plant attempt to implement a mandatory exercise program to promote a healthier lifestyle among the employees.
As any casual viewer of the show might predict, Homer, a character known for his knack for finding the easy way to do everything, devises a terrible plan to purposely gain so much weight that he’s incapable of entering the plant and must go on disability.
Much to his wife’s chagrin, he puts the plan into action and soon succeeds. Unable to fire him, the boss of the power plant sets up a remote workstation, and before long, Homer is sitting in front of a computer lazily fulfilling his duties from home.
Preventing the fallout
The job is simple: Every few seconds, Homer must answer “yes” to a plant safety question to prevent an explosion. However, after becoming disinterested in repeatedly pressing the “Y” key, Homer gets a “drinking bird” toy to do the task instead.
At first, the toy’s perpetual motion allows Homer to engage in other activities around the house. But soon, his misguided assurance in the bird’s rhythm prompts him to leave the house and go to the movies. Upon his return, the bird has broken, ceasing to answer the safety questions, and Homer spends the rest of the episode frantically trying to prevent nuclear fallout.
I never thought I would learn a caregiving lesson from Homer Simpson.
When our daughter, whom we lovingly call Ladybug, was diagnosed with hereditary angioedema, I began the caregiving journey obsessing over every fine detail. I scheduled every doctor’s appointment, supervised every check-in, and called the specialty pharmacy to ensure that her preventive and emergency medications arrived on time. Unfortunately, as a new caregiver, I often didn’t order her meds in time, which led to unfortunate consequences.
After several hiccups, the folks at the specialty pharmacy and I found a great routine: They would call us to see if we had enough meds on hand, which would let me know it was time to order more. Soon, I found solace in that rhythm. I had nothing to worry about, because I knew the pharmacy would call.
After several months of this method, it hit a significant snag: We ran out of refills.
Because I’d relied so much on the rhythm of the pharmacy calling, I’d inadvertently forgotten to include an important step: the doctor’s appointment.
Part of Ladybug’s care plan is to see her doctor every few months for checkups and check-ins. Without these visits, her physician can’t resubmit her prescriptions on time, potentially leading to a trip to the emergency room and a hospitalization. While the rhythm I’d allowed to form was convenient, it wasn’t ideal.
In caregiving, what seems like the easiest or most efficient way isn’t always the best. Sometimes what seems like the most daunting and repetitive tasks lead to better and safer days for the ones we love.
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