“You all shut down the city for this?” a social media user asked. “We call this a regular day in Montana,” another chimed in. Around this time of year, those of us born and raised in the South are used to hearing Midwesterners or Northerners make fun of our “snow…
From the Caregiver's HAErt — Danita LaShelle Jones

Danita currently calls Madison, Alabama, home. She and her husband raise four exceptional children, one of which lives with hereditary angioedema — Ladybug. As a caregiver, Danita hopes that her column will show other caregivers and patients that they’re not alone. Championing the idea to “inform the world,” she seeks to reveal HAE in such a way that even if it’s rare for an individual to have it, it isn’t rare for everyone to know about it.
In “The Butterfly Effect,” the character played by Ashton Kutcher learns that attempting to avoid negative situations doesn’t necessarily lead to better outcomes. Dissatisfied with the circumstances in his life, he discovers that when he reads his childhood journals, he can travel back in time and inhabit his younger self’s…

Had I known Yelp existed back then, the outing would have received zero out of five stars. After hearing great things about a nature walk from one of our outdoorsy friends, my husband and I drove to meet her about an hour outside Columbus, Ohio. Because I grew up in…
I put down my phone in mild frustration. Like many people around this time of year, I’m trying to practice healthier habits in my daily routine. Yet, the app I downloaded was hindering my ability to do so. I have a list of what I refuse to call resolutions, some…
It was over. Sixteen seconds into a semifinal qualifying race at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, Derek Redmond grabbed the back of his leg and hit the ground with a torn hamstring. All hopes for him qualifying disappeared. Redmond was no stranger to injuries throughout his career. Four years earlier,…
While I’m sure there are more terrifying things to face on earth, I’m also sure my father couldn’t think of any as we picked up speed, careening backward down a steep hill. “Put the brake on!” he yelled. I immediately obeyed, and the car came to a screeching halt mere…
“Norm!” the bar occupants yell in unison. The long-running sitcom “Cheers” centered around a quaint bar in Boston and the regular patrons who frequented it. One of its tropes was the gleeful recognition of Norm, a regular, when he entered the bar. At first, audiences looked forward to the throwaway…
Of all the ways to wake up, my aching face in a pool of water ranked pretty low. Unfortunately, that wasn’t something I knew until it happened. After very extensive surgery to remove four wisdom teeth, I was sent home with my parents, an appropriate and necessary amount of pain…
The panic in my production headset had reached a frenzy. Seconds before my boss was to walk on stage in front of thousands of people, the mechanism that was supposed to display his slides and videos, both to the audience and to online viewers, failed. Although countless troubleshooting efforts were…
At the sound of her name, the entire auditorium erupted. Seconds later, everyone, even the losers, were on their feet, with some crying tears of joy. The standing ovation lingered for almost two minutes, and even Oprah Winfrey walked onto the stage shouting congratulations. Susan Lucci had finally…
Despite a doctor suggesting the possibility, caregiver Danita LaShelle Jones wasn't ready for her daughter's hereditary angioedema diagnosis. It took time, but eventually she was able to accept their new reality.
“I’m a winner, and I’m special, and Jones don’t take no stuff. No stuff!” “Say it again!” I yelled rhythmically to our 5-year-old as I drove him to school. “I’m a winner,” he repeated, “I’m special, and Jones don’t take no stuff. No stuff!” After discovering that our oldest son,…
With 20 minutes until the appointment and an 18-minute drive, I’d run out of any wiggle room for anything that might delay me in getting the twins to the pediatrician on time. Although I had attempted to leave quickly, I answered honestly when my then 4-year-olds asked if they would…
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